Ray’s honest answer: the private programme isn’t where you should start.
Not because your situation isn’t serious. Because based on what you told us, putting $3,000 into it right now would be the wrong first move — and Ray would rather say so than sell you something.
What you told us
The Relationship Results video series
Two short videos a week — Tuesday and Saturday mornings — where Ray takes one specific thing that goes wrong between two people and shows you what to do about it. No theory. The same material he gives paying clients, in smaller pieces.
- What to actually say when the conversation is already going badly
- Why the same fight keeps returning, and where the loop breaks
- The S.W.I.M. method and the “emotional fire alarm” — his two core tools
- One click to unsubscribe, and he means it
The Jump-Start Kit
Two short books, audio and digital
Relationship Healing Basics™ — the quick-start: the handful of shifts that move a couple from clashing to actually connecting.
END Relationship Conflict NOW!™ — the S.W.I.M. System™, step by step, written for use in the middle of an argument rather than after it.
Both books in audio and digital. Read them separately, then compare notes — that conversation tends to be the useful part.
Ray on the thing you described
If your situation changes
Circumstances move. If the timing or the money changes, or things get worse and waiting stops making sense, the door is open — just reply to any of Ray’s emails. There’s no application to redo.
“His approach to counselling is unlike any we’ve had before. I felt heard and understood by him. He then taught me how to listen and hear my spouse.”
Hannah Sandy · Google review